出自:华北水利水电大学混凝土结构设计原理
I live in the Disneyland with year-round sun. You may think people in such a charming, fun-filled place are happier than others. If so, you misunderstand the ___1_____of happiness. Many ____2____ people still equate happiness with fun. The truth is that fun and happiness have little or nothing ____3_____. Fun is what we experience during an act. Happiness is what we experience after an act. It is a deeper and more lasting ____4_____. The way people ______5__the belief that a fun-filled , painfree life equals happiness actually ____6___their chances of ever attaining real happiness. If fun and pleasure are equated with happiness, then pain must be equated with unhappiness. But in fact, the opposition is true------usually, things that lead to happiness __7___some pain. As a result, many people avoid the very ____8__that are the _9_of true happiness. They fear the pain inevitably brought by such things as marriage, raising children, professional achievement, religious ____10_____, civic or charitable work, and self-improvement.
When life has us in a tight corner, on of the first questions we may ask is: can I ____1___this with a laugh. Men with giant responsibilities have frequently used this approach to big problems------often with good ___2____. When Gen. George C. Marshall, U.S. Army Chief of Staff, tried hard to prepare his un-ready nation to enter World War II, he met a strong ___3___from his Commander-in-Chief _____4___the elements that called for the support. Marshall felt that _5____was needed most was highly developed ground forces. President Roosevelt was a navy man, who believed that their _____6_____need was a powerful navy, plus a large sir force. In_____7____ tense debates with President, Marshall pushed his argument so hard that he began to ____8_____even stronger resistance. Finally, during a particularly hot meeting, the usually stone-faced Marshall forced a grin. “At least, Mr. President,” he said, “ you might stop ____9___the Navy as ‘us’ and the army as ‘them’.” Roosevelt studied Marshall over his glasses, then laughed with a great show of teeth. Later on, he made a more objective study of Marshall’s ______10____ and eventually bought the ground-force concept.